Simple IncentivesThese may embrace smaller sums of money being given for matters such as reading a book from a chosen list, going on short courses and the like.
16. ELOCUTIONTalking and eloquence are not the same: to speak, and to speak well, are two things.
Ben Jonson
Communication is important and a good start is for your beneficiary to acquire good elocution and presentation skills.The benefits are numerous and encouragement will help this to be done.
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17. WEB SKILLSYoung players need freedom of expression to develop as creative players... they should be encouraged to try skills without fear of failure. Arsene WengerMotivate your beneficiary to acquire suitable web skills and to create and publish web sites and much moreThese are the new skills of the age and well worth learning18. YOGAOh gosh, I noticed dramatic changes in my body after I started doing yoga, but I also think you have to shake things up. Jennifer AnistonThe ancient art and craft of Yoga is steeped in much learning and wisdom.Your beneficiary will stay or become healthy and will be better able to stay calm and deal with the stresses and strains of life
19. MEDITATIONAt the end of the day, I can end up just totally wacky, because I've made mountains out of molehills. With meditation, I can keep them as molehills. Ringo StarrFollowing on from yoga, your beneficiaries would enjoy attending the many meditation resorts around the world.Treat them
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20. DIARYI never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read in the train.Oscar Wilde
Encourage them to keep a regular diary. A handwritten one as well, though you may need to pay more.It will give them a chance to reflect on the day and in ages to come.
21. GATHERINGS A happy family is but an earlier heaven. George Bernard Shaw Incentivise them to organise frequent gathering of close family and friends. Dinners , picnics and much else.
22. FAITH“The function of prayer is not to influence God, but rather to change the nature of the one who prays.”
Certainly incentivise your beneficiary to learn all about the family faith and to know it well. Also ask them to learn well about those of other faiths and those of no faith. An important area in our age and a good understanding and appreciation will make your beneficiary grateful and graceful.
23. PARTY“I drink to the general joy o’ the whole table." Macbeth” William Shakespeare, MacbethHave them organise a party every year in celebration of your passing and they can mourn and dance and dally.All on you of course!
24. HOLIDAYSA vacation is like love - anticipated with pleasure, experienced with discomfort, and remembered with nostalgia. Author UnknownProvide Incentives for them to have holidays at some places of your choosing and some places they choose themselves
25. COOKING
Cooking is about passion, so it may look slightly temperamental in a way that is too assertive to the naked eye. Gordon Ramsay
Pay your beneficiary to learn cooking. Cooking lessons and trips and so many possibilities. They will never go hungry. Cooking is about passion, so it may look slightly temperamental in a way that is too assertive to the naked eye.26. VISITSFriends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer. Henri Nouwen Visit relatives and friends frequently and take along suitable gifts. Yes they are being paid to do this and may be mocked.Bribe , Carrot , Stick
Whatever does the Trick,27. FAMILY WEB
Look well after a beneficiary who organises an online web presence for the family and extended family. This helps them all to stay in touch with each other. Your support will provide encouragement to do this task well and regularlyETIQUETTEFinishing schools no longer fashionable so how to teach good ways of behaving and dealing with people. Whilst some of the deportment and manners are important they only apply mainly in upper class society. However where do they teach the art of conversation or of listening or of how to obtain informations and news nowadays.Depending on the duration and the intensity of those courses, girls are taught how to sit, stand, walk. How to speak, the art of conversation. Also, the proper way to set a table. In some prestigious finishing schools, they learn french, intern how to host a luncheon, a tea, a coffee, dinner and charity balls. They also learn how to dance, dress and conduct themselves.With the digital age many more life skills are necessary who teaches them.Can have family member who keeps people up to date with relevant information better than browsing the web though can do that of courseCan extract facebook extracts so easier for people to see what is happening with the family even those who are not much on facebookSet up some examplesNow only updates for family but also for community.GiftsThe art and craft of good gift giving. There is guidance on this on the web but good to have some curation of the sources.Navetj singh sarna says tried to get his kids to learn gurmukhi without success gave them primers did he show all the reason why
How easy did he amke it etc
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